Grabbys Spotlight: Alessio Veneziano
Targeting trophies in Torremolinos.
As we count down towards the Grabby Awards in Torremolinos, we caught up with Alessio Veneziano.
Alessio is nominated in five categories:
- Best Bottom
- Best Versatile
- Scene of the Year
- Duo Scene of the Year
- Collaboration of the Year
You've said that winning a Grabby Award would be important to you because it would be recognition that your journey matters - how did you discover and start to explore that performing on camera and content creation was something that you're passionate about?
My first real experience with adult film was back in 2014, when I filmed a scene for The Tourist by Raging Stallion. I was 28, and I had no idea what to expect. But the moment the cameras started rolling, something clicked. Everything felt surprisingly natural — the energy, the performance, the connection with the crew. Instead of feeling nervous, I felt at ease, almost like I’d found a part of myself I didn’t know was there.
At the time, I didn’t imagine it would become a long‑term path. But that first scene stayed with me. It showed me that being on camera wasn’t just something I could do — it was something I genuinely enjoyed.
Years later, when I started creating my own content, that same feeling came back. It became a way to express myself, to rebuild confidence, and to reconnect with joy during a very difficult period of my life.
So, in a way, my passion started in 2014, even if I didn’t fully understand it yet. That first scene planted the seed, and everything I’ve built since then grew from that moment.
Do you consider yourself an exhibitionist?
There’s definitely an exhibitionist side to me, but it’s only one part of who I am. In my everyday life, I’m actually quite shy. I’ve never been the loud, look‑at‑me type of person. But when I step into the role of Alessio Veneziano, something shifts. It’s almost like a superpower — a version of me that brings out sides I’ve always kept quiet or hidden.
On camera, I feel free, expressive, and completely in my element. That’s where the exhibitionism comes alive. It’s not forced - it’s something that appears naturally when I’m performing.
Alessio gives me the space to explore that energy, to enjoy being seen, and to connect with people in a way that I don’t always allow myself to do in real life.
So yes, I have an exhibitionist streak — but it’s a special part of me that wakes up when Alessio steps into the scene.
What was your relationship with your body like when you were growing up?
Looking back, my relationship with my body was actually very difficult. I grew up as an overweight kid, and that shaped a lot of how I saw myself. I was always the one trying to hide, not the one who felt confident taking his clothes off. I carried a lot of shame about my appearance, and for many years I didn’t feel comfortable in my own skin.
That started to change slowly as I got older, but the real transformation happened when I began working in this industry. Creating content forced me to confront my insecurities and, little by little, it helped me rebuild my self‑esteem. I learned to appreciate my body, to improve what I didn’t like, and to see myself with more kindness.
Today, being naked on camera feels natural — but it’s not because I was always confident. It’s because this work helped me grow into someone who finally feels comfortable, proud, and at peace with his body.
How has your work in the adult entertainment industry changed your relationship with your body and the way that you experience intimacy?
Working in this industry has changed me in ways I didn’t expect. Learning to interpret different roles depending on the scene has trained my mind to let go of a lot of the pressure I used to put on myself. When I’m performing, I focus on the moment, on the sensations, and on expressing what the scene needs — not on judging myself. That shift has been incredibly freeing.
I also realised that even the most famous performers I’ve worked with have their own insecurities. That was a turning point for me. It made me understand that I wasn’t alone, and that many of the “defects” I thought I had were things only I was seeing. We’re often our own worst critics.
This work helped me see myself differently. I decided to make changes, to take care of myself, and to learn to appreciate my body instead of fighting against it. Little by little, I started to let go, to trust myself more, and to feel comfortable being fully present — both physically and emotionally. It’s been a journey of self‑acceptance, and I’m grateful for it.
What makes a good collab?
Collaborations are essential because they allow us to train our imagination and create that space of chemistry and creativity between human beings.
It’s something the audience can feel in every gesture; not just in the physical act, but in every look, every breath, and all the non‑verbal communication that forms an invisible thread connecting us with the people who follow us.
Gareth Johnson
Beyond the Grabby Awards, what else is on your vision-board for the months ahead?
Beyond the Grabby Awards, one of my biggest goals is to work on high‑level productions with major studios — projects where I can also explore acting through real scripts and cinematic storytelling. It’s a very ambitious goal, and I know it’s not easy to reach, but I want to keep improving and use all the creativity and qualities I have.
I’ve always loved performing. I speak seven languages, and I’ve studied music and dance, so I dream of taking on roles that challenge me and allow me to express different sides of myself. I want to push my limits, grow as a performer, and bring something unique to every project I’m part of.
For me, the coming months are about evolution — refining my craft, exploring new opportunities, and seeing how far I can go when I let myself dream big.
Gareth Johnson