Gay Sex 1.01: Know your washroom cruising signals
It's important to always be open to opportunities.
If you're into some anonymous action, a washroom or public toilet is often where these opportunities present themselves.
But do you know how to spot the signals when a guy is up for a man-on-man encounter?
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Why cruise for sex in a restroom?
Cruising for sex can happen pretty much anywhere. Public spaces such as airports, train stations, truck stops, libraries, or parks are all potential hot-spots for men that are looking for some man-on-man action.
But it’s in men’s restrooms – the public toilets – where some of the most satisfying cruising goes down.
You might think that restroom cruising is a thing of the past - why bother cruising when you can simply put the technology to work?
But the anonymous thrills of cruising are very much alive and kicking. It’s not just for closeted guys who need to be a bit discreet – once you’ve had a taste of the adrenalin rush of a restroom encounter, there’s no doubt that you’ll be back for more.
How do you find a restroom where cruising might be possible?
Let’s be honest, any restroom or public washroom has the potential to be a hot-spot for man-on-man action. But wherever you are, there’s bound to be some washrooms that are known as the go-to options if you want to cruise for some cock.
Word-of-mouth is probably the most effective way to find your local cruising hot-spot, but there are also some online listings that can be useful. Chatting with guys on hook-up apps and asking about cruising spots is also a useful way to get some local tips.
As a general rule, washrooms that are a bit out of the way are the preferred option for cruising. You don’t want too much traffic – you don’t want any unwanted attention. You’re looking for a quiet spot where guys can get down to business without any interruptions.
But the reality is that any public toilets could deliver an opportunity to get your rocks off - you just need to be alert to the signals and open to the opportunities.
How do you tell when you're being cruised in a washroom?
There’s a couple of tried and tested signals that you should be keeping an eye out for, in terms of cruising etiquette.
If the guy in the cubicle next to you taps his foot, that generally means that he’s up for some action.
A swipe of the fingers is another sign to be on the lookout for. Traditionally, this has been used for gloryholes – if you swipe your fingers around the edge of the gloryhole, it’s game on. But it also works for understall action as well – if the guy in the cubicle next to you swipes his fingers along the bottom of the cubicle wall, then he’s ready to play.
If you’re open to a bit of cruising fun, check out the cubicle that’s furthest away from the door, or the part of the urinal that’s a bit obscured. If there’s any action to be had, this is where it will be.
How do you cruise for sex in a public washroom?
You do need to be aware of the laws in place where you are. In some parts of the world, there’s no law against cruising. In others, having sex in a public washroom is illegal. Some police forces actively target known cruising spots and will try and arrest men they suspect of cruising. Make sure you know the local rules.
Once you’re up-to-speed with the legal situation, then you’re ready for action.
The main thing about cruising in a public washroom is to take your time. Don’t be in a rush. Observe what’s going on around you.
You might notice a guy or two hanging around the entrance to the washroom. If they’re interested, they might follow you in.
If the washroom is deserted, then head to the farthest cubicle and get comfortable. See who else comes in. See if someone comes into the adjacent cubicle and gives you any signals – such as tapping their foot or swiping their fingers.
If there’s a guy standing at the urinal, and you like the look of him, stand next to him at the urinal. Take your time, let him take a look at your cock. Take your lead from him – has he got his cock out? Is he hard? Is he jacking his cock?
Once you’ve connected with someone, and it’s clear that you’re both on the same page and up for some fun, then you’ve got a couple of options.
Some guys really like an audience – they’ll suck you or want you to suck them while you’re standing at the urinals. Others might want a bit more privacy, so suggest that you head into a cubicle to get it on.
Depending on the design of the cubicles, understall action can be a lot of fun. Get down on the floor and get to grips with each other.
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Gareth Johnson