The Netherlands: Gay PM to become father via surrogacy
Rob Jetten and Nicolás Keenan have announced they are expecting first child.
Rob Jetten - the Prime Minister of the Netherlands - has announced the he and his fiancé, Nico Keenan, are expecting their first child.
“Someone very special is on the way...” Jetten and Keenan posted on Instagram. “See you in 2027, little one. There are no words big enough to thank our eggdonor, our surrogate mum Lisa and both their families. None of this would be possible without you.”
The post was accompanied by photos of the happy couple holding a sonogram, including one photo with their surrogate standing between them.
The post also included a quote from Lisa, who said she and her family “are absolutely delighted that we can help make Rob and Nico’s dream come true.”
A statement from Jetten’s D66 party said the pregnancy was made possible through friends of the couple and that, in compliance with Dutch law, neither the egg donor nor the surrogate is being paid.
“The surrogate mother is Dutch, as is the egg donor..." read the statement. "This is not a case of commercial surrogacy. The surrogate mother and the egg donor are acquaintances of Jetten and Keenan. They are delighted to be able to help fulfil the two fathers-to-be’s dream of having a child in this way.”
Commercial surrogacy is not legal in the Netherlands, but altruistic surrogacy is. The only legal route to surrogacy is through friends, relatives, or acquaintances.
A statement from Lisa in the party’s press release describes how being a surrogate “feels like a very special way to help make the dream of our dear friends come true.”
“We are incredibly grateful that, thanks to two wonderful women, we now have the opportunity to make our dream come true,” Jetten added. “The surrogate mother and the baby are doing well, which is of course the most important thing for now. We strongly urge everyone to respect the privacy of those involved.”
What’s life like for LGBTQ people in The Netherlands?
What’s life like for LGBTQ people in The Netherlands? Let’s take a look at some of the key equality indicators.
Is homosexuality legal in The Netherlands?
Yes. Same-sex sexual activity was decriminalised in 1811.
Decriminalisation happened when France invaded The Netherlands and imposed its legal system – this erased the anti-sodomy laws that had previously been in place. There has been no attempt to reintroduce anti-sodomy laws since that time.
There is an equal age-of-consent regardless of sexuality.
Are there anti-discrimination protections for LGBTQ people in The Netherlands?
Yes. Comprehensive anti-discrimination protections were implemented in 1994.
Is there Marriage Equality in The Netherlands?
Yes. Legal recognition of same-sex relationships began in 1998, and in 2001 The Netherlands became the first country in the world to adopt Marriage Equality.
What’s life like for LGBTQ people in The Netherlands?
The Netherlands is one of the most culturally and socially liberal countries in the world.
It is a country that welcomes and celebrates LGBTQ people.
There is a vibrant and visible LGBTQ community.
In the recent ILGA report on LGBTQ Equality in Europe, the Netherlands was ranked 13th overall. With a total score of 63.82%, the Netherlands lost most of its points on the criteria of Hate Crime & Hate Speech and also Intersex Bodily Integrity.
What were the Utrecht sodomy trials?
The Utrecht sodomy trials were a large-scale persecution of homosexuals that took place in the Dutch Republic, starting in the city of Utrecht in 1730.
Over the following year, the persecution of ‘sodomites’ – which was how gay men were described – spread to the rest of the nation, leading to the trial and persecution of around 300 men – many of whom were convicted and executed.
What led to the Utrecht sodomy trials?
The period leading up to 1730 had been a difficult time for the Dutch Republic. It’s cattle herds had been struck by disease, and the important dike defences against flooding were being undermined by shipworm. This came on top of a number of natural disasters in preceding decades – all ascribed to divine wrath. All of this left the people of the Dutch Republic susceptible to moral panic.
The Dom Church in Utrecht had been the city’s most important religious site for centuries. In 1674, a major storm caused the collapse of the church’s nave. The ruins of the nave became a well-known cruising area and meeting point for the city’s gay men.
In April of 1730, church officials requested that the city authorities take action to prevent gay men from meeting in the church ruins.
A number of men were arrested. The confessions of the men arrested at the church indicated the presence of networks and meeting places of homosexuals elsewhere in the Dutch Republic.
Urged on by the Protestant church, the following months saw a wave of prosecutions, as authorities took action against the men whose sexuality had been exposed in confessions by men who had been arrested.
Men from all levels of society were implicated – the wealthy were often able to flee before they could be arrested.
In Utrecht, about forty men were tried on the charge of sodomy – 18 were convicted and strangled. Death by strangling was the most common punishment for homosexual acts in the Dutch Republic, but other punishments during this anti-gay purge included hanging or drowning in a barrel of water.
The bodies of the men executed for sodomy were either burnt, cast into the sea, or buried under the gallows.
While there were suggestions that the sodomy trials were in some instances used to target political enemies of the ruling authorities, historians have concluded that most of men named in confessions and accused of sodomy were gay men. This confirms that while this was a moral panic, the sodomy trials weren’t some kind of hysterical witch-hunt but a deliberate pogrom or purge of gay men.
What happened after the Utrecht sodomy trials?
The persecution of gay men in the Dutch Republic continued long after 1730. Several waves of prosecution followed during the eighteenth century – particularly in 1764, 1776, and 1797.
How are the Utrecht sodomy trials remembered?
The Dom Square – the place where gay men cruising became to touch-paper that triggered the sodomy trials – is now the home of the Sodomonument.
Unveiled in 1999, the Sodomonument is a stone that commemorates the deaths of the gay men persecuted during this period of history.
Gareth Johnson