What's your sign?
Horoscopes for homos.
There's not a lot of science behind it, but throughout human history the stars have been a source of guidance - providing us with a framework that helps us to navigate through the cycles of time.
Virgo Season
We're entering Virgo season - beginning on 23 August and running through until 22 September.
Let's take a look at what's in store for us in the season of Virgo.
Attributes:
Those born under the sign of Virgo tend to be a bit of a perfectionist.
They're often analytical, detail-oriented, reliable, and hardworking.
They feel most comfortable when there's stability, structure, and organisation - in both their personal and professional life.
The downside of a Virgo man's analytical nature is that he can over-think things and may not be great at taking constructive criticism.
Symbols
The symbol for Virgo is the Virgin or the maiden - Virgin is the direct translation from Latin of the constellation named Virgo.
There's various mythologies that connect to Virgo - often associated with harvest and fertility. In that context, we shouldn't see the Virgin as representing purity or chasteness - the maiden represented by this constellation is an earthy temptress, a seductress.
Colour
The power colour associated with Virgo is an earthy green.
Virgo's feel most comfortable with an earthy palette of warm colours.
Birthstone
The birthstone associated with Virgo is the blue sapphire - representing wisdom, clarity, and integrity.
Who should have sex with Virgo men?
It's never a bad idea to have sex with a Virgo guy - they bring an earthy energy to the encounter but they're still in control of what they're feeling and who they're connecting with.
The signs that they most easily connect with are Taurus, Capricorn, and Cancer - they bond with a stable and nurturing vibe. However a Scorpio can also be a good match for a Virgo when they find each other intellectually stimulating.
Who should Virgo men avoid?
Virgo men often struggle with those of the sign of Libra - they don't connect intellectually and so the relationship may lack the excitement required.
Looking for a third?
If you're looking to bring a guy into your relationship for some threesome fun, a Virgo man is a great option. Don't overwhelm him with information but he's going to want a clear plan of what's going to happen, who's doing what to whom, and how it's all going to go down.
If you're travelling with a Virgo man, they like to plan, they like to think things through, they like to consider the options. Put them in charge of the itinerary but you might need to rein them in occasionally if they start over-thinking things.
Gifts for Virgo men?
Virgo men going to respond best to gifts that are thoughtful but practical. Try and find something that shows that you know who they are and what they're passionate about - they're not going to be impressed by stuff that they don't need or don't care about.
For example, if they're into cooking then a cooking class is likely to be well-received. If they're into fashion then some accessories from an up-and-coming interesting designer is worth a shot. Look for something that they're into and then find a way to connect with that in an interesting way.
Virgo
- Symbol: The Virgin
- Season: 23 August - 22 September
Libra
- Symbol: The scales
- Season: 23 September - 23 October
Scorpio
- Symbol: The Scorpion
- Season: 24 October - 21 November
Sagittarius
- Symbol: The Archer
- Season: 22 November - 21 December
Capricorn
- Symbol: The Goat
- Season: 22 December - 19 January
Aquarius
- Symbol: The Water Bearer
- Season: 20 January - 18 February
Pisces
- Symbol: The Fish
- Season: 19 February - 20 March
Aries
- Symbol: The Ram
- Season: 21 March - 19 April
Taurus
- Symbol: The Bull
- Season: 20 April - 20 May
Gemini
- Symbol: The Twins
- Season: 21 May - 21 June
Cancer
- Symbol: The Crab
- Season: 22 June - 22 July
Leo
- Symbol: Lion
- Season: 23 July - 22 August
Scorpio
Speaking on our podcast, How To Date Men, James Gaynor takes a look at Scorpio season, how the zodiac can influence our sex lives, and how we can use the stars to shape our sexual encounters.
Attributes:
Those born under the sign of Scorpio are generally fairly intense. They tend to make good leaders - they're loyal and committed, but can be quite fiery and passionate. They tend to play their cards close to their chest. You do not want to cross a Scorpio - they do not forgive and they do not forget.
Symbols
The symbol for Scorpio is the scorpion - which gives you a lot of information about the men that fall under this sign. While it's probably a bit literal to automatically associate Scorpio men with descriptions such as "deadly" or "sting in the tail", there is an intense spontaneity to Scorpios that feels aligned to their symbol - you know that you need to exercise caution but you're never quite sure what the red flags are or where the danger might come from.
Colour
The power colour associated with Scorpio is a deep red.
Birthstone
The birthstone associated with Scorpio is Topaz.
Who should have sex with Scorpios?
Everyone. Everyone should have sex with Scorpios because it's generally pretty good - it's a star sign that's strongly associated with sexual energy.
When it comes to relationships, however, that's a different story. Not everyone is equipped to sustain an emotional connection with a Scorpio.
Scorpio is a water sign, so they tend to find the easiest match with fellow water signs such as Pisces and Cancer. But you should never say never with a Scorpio - they will often surprise you and find love and commitment in the most unlikely combinations.
Who should Scorpios avoid?
Scorpios tend to struggle with Leos, and often also struggle with the centaurs of Sagittarius. But there's not much point getting caught up in the technicalities of it all - start with a sexual encounter, if the sexual energy feels right then it might be worth seeing where that can take you.
Looking for a third?
Scorpios are the ideal third to add a bit of spice to your relationship.
If you're a couple looking to have some threesome fun, then the sexual energy embodied by a Scorpio is exactly what you're looking for. You probably won't want them to stay the night and you definitely don't want to cook them breakfast in the morning, but they're here for a good time not a long time so make the most of that.
Gifts for Scorpios
If you're looking to buy something for the Scorpio man in your life, it's safest to lean into something that you know that they're already passionate about.
For example, if they're into swimming - get them something that's swimming related. Whatever their hobby or passion, give them more of that.
Scorpio men generally like to look and smell good, but go with brands that you know that they already like and will respond positively to. It's a high-risk strategy to buy them a perfume that they're not familiar with - you're on safer ground if you go with a perfume that you know that they already use.
Sagittarius
Speaking on our podcast, How To Date Men, James Gaynor takes a look at Sagittarius season, how the zodiac can influence our sex lives, and how we can use the stars to shape our sexual encounters.
Attributes:
Those born under the sign of Sagittarius tend to be optimistic and adventurous - open to the possibilities of anything that they encounter.
You would often describe the Sagittarian man as curious, independent, and needing to feel the freedom to be themselves and pursue their passions.
Symbols
The symbol for Sagittarius is the archer - but it is the archer in the form of a centuar. A favourite of Greek Mythology, centaurs have a reputation as being lusty and wild. But the duality of archer and centaur deliberately aligns Sagittarians with Chiron - a centaur known for his wisdom and gift of teaching and mentoring.
You might find a Sagittarian man to be a bit complex or hard to get to know, but that's probably because of the duality of his nature - passionate and adventurous but also thoughtful and independent.
Colour
The power colour associated with Sagittarius is purple.
Birthstone
The birthstone associated with Sagittarius is torquoise.
Who should have sex with Sagittarians?
It's never a bad idea to have sex with a Sagittarian guy - they're adventurous and open to trying new things. The downside of that is that you're going to need to keep challenging them or they could easily get bored.
Even if it's just a one-off kind of thing, you're going to need to make the proposition interesting - a basic hook-up is fine but it's not really going to capture the attention of a Sagittarian man.
The general consensus is that Aquarius is a good match for Sagittarius - in an opposites-attract kind of vibe.
The other strong match seems to be with Leo - a fellow Fire sign, a Leo and a Sagittarian are likely to generate a lot of heat. Sure, it probably won't last long, but it will be an intense and memorable encounter.
Who should Sagittarians avoid?
Sagittarians tend to struggle with guys born under the sign of Virgo. Virgo men generally like rules, order, discipline, whereas Sagittarians want the freedom to do it their own way - they're Centaurs who need to feel wild and free.
Looking for a third?
Sagittarians are a great option if you're looking for a third to add a bit of spice to your relationship. They're going to be up for trying anything, so if you are looking for someone to get a bit filthy with, these are your guys - they don't want it vanilla, they've done that.
The other plus-side of inviting a Sagittarian guy over for some fun is that they're not going to want to stick around. They want their freedom and independence - you won't have to cook them breakfast, they're already on the lookout for their next adventure.
Gifts for Sagittarians
If you're looking to buy something for the Sagittarian man in your life, you've got a bit of a challenge ahead of you.
Don't ask him what he wants - he'll find that boring. He wants to be surprised, he wants to stimulated, he wants something creative. But he's also not that bothered by material things - he doesn't want stuff just for the sake of having stuff.
The solution is probably to look for an experience - something that you can do together is ideal although he'll also be happy with solo time. What will impress him is that you've put some thought into it and gone beyond the obvious or the basic.
Capricorn
Speaking on our podcast, How To Date Men, James Gaynor takes a look at Capricorn season, how the zodiac can influence our sex lives, and how we can use the stars to shape our sexual encounters.
Attributes:
Those born under the sign of Capricorn tend to be organised and hard-working - they like to have a plan or some kind of framework so they know how they're going to navigate a situation.
A Capricorn man is likely to be reliable and dependable - not particularly spontaneous or adventurous but excellent at getting the job done.
Symbols
The symbol for Capricorn is the sea-goat - a mythical creature that is half goat and half fish. The origin story of the sea-goat is linked to the Greek god, Pan. The story goes that Pan was trying to escape the wrath of Typhon - he jumped into a river and attempted to change himself into a fish but Typhon caught him mid-transition which left him with the head of a goat and the tail of a fish.
This symbol speaks to the adaptability of the Capricorn man - he can be successful whatever his surroundings but it is uncertainty or a lack of structure that makes him uncomfortable.
Colour
The power colour associated with Capricorn is earthy red - anything from ochre through to a darker caramel.
Birthstone
The birthstone associated with Capricorn is garnet.
Who should have sex with Capricorns?
It's never a bad idea to have sex with a Capricorn guy - they're unlikely to ghost you, if they say that they'll turn up then they will. The downside with a Capricorn is that the sex may not feel particularly edgy or dangerous. Capricorns can you give that kind of experience but you have to let them know what's going to happen so that they've got a clear framework to work within.
The general consensus is that a Pisces man is a good match for Capricorn - Pisces are strong on emotions and feelings and will respond well to the structure and dependability of a Capricorn.
The other strong match seems to be with Leo, but it needs to be a Leo who is in fairly self-aware so that they value the balance that a Capricorn will bring to that relationship.
Who should Capricorns avoid?
It's the air signs that Capricorn struggles most with - Gemini, Libra and Aquarius. Men born under an air sign are unlikely to respond positively to the structure and dependability of a Capricorn man. Air signs like to shake things up just for the fun of it.
Looking for a third?
If you're looking to bring a guy into your relationship for some threesome fun, a Capricorn probably wouldn't be your first choice - they're going to feel most comfortable if they're the ones organising the hook-up.
Put the Capricorn in charge of the threesome. When is it happening? Who are we inviting? Who is going to do what to whom? Have an understanding of how the threesome is going to plan out will help the Capricorn relax and enjoy the experience.
The same principle applies if you're travelling with a Capricorn. Put them in charge of the itinerary - they're at their best when they're organising.
Gifts for Capricorns?
Before everything moved online, the Capricorn in your life was the guy that you bought the Filofax or planning diary for.
They're going to respond to practical gifts - a really nice pen, a smart watch, a fitness tracker. This is a man who finds a spreadsheet reassuring - lean into that.
Aquarius
Speaking on our podcast, How To Date Men, James Gaynor shares his insights regarding Aquarius.
We take a look at Aquarius season, how the zodiac can influence our sex lives, and how we can use the stars to shape our sexual encounters.
Attributes:
Those born under the sign of Aquarius tend to be independent - they can be creative but feel most comfortable when there is some control and structure to help them navigate a situation.
An Aquarian man is likely to be calm and a source of reassurance and stability.
Symbols
The symbol for Aquarius is the water bearer.
Mythology surrounding the water bearer can be found across ancient civilisations. In Greek mythology, the water bearer is associated with Ganymede - a young goatherd who was so beautiful that he was abducted by Zeus and appointed as the water bearer to the gods.
This symbol speaks to the enabling powers of the Aquarian man - his personality and calming presence can be a gateway to help others grow and experience new things.
Colour
The power colour associated with Aquarius is blue - fresh and bright tones.
They're likely to also be drawn to colours that complement the blue palette, particularly sea greens
A bold red can also resonate with an Aquarian man.
Birthstone
The birthstone associated with Aquarius is Amethyst - a calming purple. Aquarians also have an affinity with the red of Garnet.
Who should have sex with Aquarians?
It's never a bad idea to have sex with an Aquarian guy - it can be passionate and you can quickly establish a strong connection.
If you're exploring the potential of a relationship with an Aquarian, be aware of their need for structure and control. Agree some ground-rules up front, put some framework around the relationship. If you're wanting to change the rules of the relationship, put that on the table in a way that gives the Aquarian time to process and consider what you're suggesting. For example, if you've agreed a monogamous relationship but are wanting to open that up or explore a threesome, don't just announce it out of the blue - lay the groundwork so that your Aquarian can see a logical way forward and be comfortable with that.
The general consensus is that signs that are particularly compatible with Aquarius are Gemini, Libra, Sagittarius, and Aries. An Aquarius man is going to be drawn to someone who can challenge and excite them intellectually while also respecting their need for independence.
Who should Aquarians avoid?
The chaos of a strong-willed Scorpio is likely to make an Aquarian man feel fairly uncomfortable. They're also unlikely to have much luck with a fellow Aquarian - they need balance in the relationship.
Looking for a third?
If you're looking to bring a guy into your relationship for some threesome fun, an Aquarian is a great choice - particularly if you and your partner are just beginning to open up your relationship and explore the dynamic of a threesome.
The calmness that an Aquarian brings is perfect to help create a safe-space in which everyone gets to try new things, to explore and experiment, and to figure out what works.
If you're inviting an Aquarian in to share a sexual encounter with you, make sure that you're communicating clearly - they're logical, they want to know what's going on and how they fit into it. Give them the ground-rules.
The importance of communication and structure also applies to if you're travelling with an Aquarian. If there's a lack of clarity or decisiveness, the Aquarian will end up taking charge and providing the leadership required.
Gifts for Aquarians?
Aquarians generally like looking good, so if you're confident buying clothes for them then that's a gift that they'll appreciate. Think bright, bold colours. Underwear is an easy option.
Jewellery is also worth considering for an Aquarian man. They'll be interested in something that's a bit unusual, something with a bit of a story behind it.
Think about their intellectual side - something that challenges them and gets them thinking is good. They'll probably respond well to a board game, or maybe something like a cooking class that gets them doing something with others.
Pisces
Speaking on our podcast, How To Date Men, James Gaynor shares his insights regarding astrology.
Joined by Lawrence Portland, we take a look at Pisces season, how the zodiac can influence our sex lives, and how we can use the stars to shape our sexual encounters.
Attributes:
Those born under the sign of Pisces tend to be sensitive, empathetic, and emotionally intuitive.
A Pisces man may seem indecisive or slow to act, but they tend to take their time when considering their options.
Symbols
The symbol for Pisces is two fish, swimming in opposite directions.
The two fish is one of the oldest astrological symbols recorded.
Greek mythology links the fish to Aphrodite and Eros.
Colour
The power colour associated with Pisces is a sea-green, with strong associations to aqua blues.
Birthstone
The birthstone associated with Pisces is aquamarine - representing serenity, clarity, and spiritual awareness.
Who should have sex with Pisces men?
It's never a bad idea to have sex with a Pisces guy - they're generally open to exploring sexual energy in an intellectual way. Options such as naked yoga, mindfulness, and tantra are the perfect way to connect with a Pisces man.
If you're exploring the potential of a relationship with a Pisces man, they tend to put the emotional needs of others before themselves. Finding balance in a relationship with a Pisces man can take some time to figure out.
The general consensus is that signs that are particularly compatible with Pisces are Sagittarius, Taurus, and Capricorn - providing some grounding.
Who should Pisces avoid?
Gemini is probably not the best for a Pisces man. Gemini being focused on ideas while Pisces is focused on emotions could just lead to a lot of confusion and frustration.
A relationship with a Scorpio is likely to be exciting and sexually fulfilling, but probably short-lived.
Living with another Pisces could work, but is likely to require a lot of work.
Looking for a third?
If you're looking to bring a guy into your relationship for some threesome fun, a Pisces man is a very safe bet. The Pisces man is likely to know what you and your partner want or need even if you haven't been able to articulate that to yourself. The Pisces man will adapt to their surroundings - create a sense of safety and comfort for everyone.
When they travel, a Pisces man is interested in experiencing the world around them. They're going to want to immerse themselves in a destination - not tick off a list of "must-see" highlights. They're going to want to meet people, talk to people, and get under the skin of what's going on with day-to-day life.
Gifts for Pisces men?
Think self-care or personal improvement.
That could be anything from skin-care, luxury bathing products and grooming, to vouchers for a yoga class or a massage.
If you're looking at clothing, go for something that is going to make them feel comfortable - a fluffy bathrobe, some silky pyjamas, or a union-suit.
Aires
Attributes:
Those born under the sign of Aires tend to be bold, passionate, and energetic.
An Aires man will often embody action and drive - the want to lead, they want to initiate new things.
Their energy will often be seen as ambitious but they do have a natural ability to inspire and motivate others - leading from the front with enthusiasm and a sense of adventure.
Symbols
The symbol for Aires is the ram.
The ram symbolises virility, strength, but also stubbornness - frequently butting heads and refusing to give ground.
Colour
The power colour associated with Aires is red.
The red of Aires is bright, bold, and fiery.
Birthstone
The birthstone associated with Aires is the diamond - a jewel that symbolises strength and clarity.
Complementary stones include aquamarine, bloodstone, and jasper.
Who should have sex with Aires men?
It's never a bad idea to have sex with an Aires guy - they're fun and playful, open to trying new things.
If you're planning on repeat business or contemplating some form of relationship, Aires men are known for having a high sex-drive. But the thing about Aires is that not only are they going to want to have a lot of sex, they're going to want to keep making it interesting. They'll get bored quickly if the sex is routine or monotonous.
In general, Aires men work best with fellow fire signs such as Leo and Sagittarius, as well as the air signs of Gemini, Libra, and Aquarius.
Who should Aires avoid?
Aires men seem to struggle with the Earth signs and the Water signs.
That doesn't mean that it would be impossible for them to have a relationship with someone who was Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn, Cancer, Scorpio, or Pisces, just that it would take some extra work and wouldn't flow as easily as they would with the Fire and Air signs.
Looking for a third?
If you're looking to bring a guy into your relationship for some threesome fun, an Aires man is a great option.
Fun, playful, up for trying new things - exactly the kind of energy that you want in a threesome.
He's also unlikely to want to stick around. Once he's had his fun with you, he's going to shift his focus to some new conquest or adventure.
If you're travelling with an Aires man, be prepared for lots of activity. They're not really sit by the pool or lie on the beach kind of guys. They're going to want to discover things, try things, and conquer new achievements.
Gifts for Aires men?
Outdoorsy things that complement his spirit of adventure will always be a safe bet.
He's probably into camping. He's probably into skiing. Buy him a Swiss Army knife with all of the attachments.
Keep it practical and useful. Socks. This is a guy that will appreciate a utilitarian gift such as socks.
Taurus
Attributes:
Those born under the sign of Taurus tend to be grounded and practical. They're loyal, dependable, patient, and are comfortable with routine and stability.
A Taurean man finds joy in pleasure - in all aspects of their life.
Symbols
The symbol for Taurus is the bull.
The bull represents strength and steadfastness - bulls are grounded and stable.
Colour
The power colour associated with Taurus is green.
Think earthy greens - olive, forest, and hunter green are the shades that will resonate with a Taurean.
Birthstone
The birthstone associated with Taurus is the Emerald, which aligns with green as the power colour for this sign.
Who should have sex with Taurean men?
It's never a bad idea to have sex with a Taurean guy - they're into pleasure. You make them feel good and they'll keep coming back for more.
The energy of a Taurean generally matches best with the earth signs of Virgo and Capricorn, as well as the water signs of Cancer, Pisces, and Scorpio. There's a lot of alignment in terms of prioritising pleasure and sensuality.
Who should Taurus avoid?
Taurean men tend to struggle with Libra, Leo, and Aquarius.
That doesn't mean that it would be impossible for them to have a relationship with these signs, just that it would take some extra work.
Looking for a third?
If you're looking to bring a guy into your relationship for some threesome fun, a Taurean man is a great option.
They want you to make them feel good. They may not be the most adventurous or innovative when it comes to sexual encounters but they're warm and sensual.
If you and your husband are looking to expand your relationship to include some regular threesome action, a Taurean is an ideal candidate. You can both give him all of your attention and he'll be loyal and dependable.
If you're travelling with a Taurean man, they're great if things aren't going to plan. He'll be patient, he won't get flustered, he'll be practical and be able to help navigate whatever is happening.
Gifts for Taurean men?
Think pleasure and things that will make him feel good.
Luxury bath products such as moisturising creams and body butters will always be welcome. Maybe a bespoke scent that speaks to his musky earthiness, with notes of leather and tobacco.
Clothes that he can feel comfortable in are a safe bet. What about a union suit? Or a really nice robe or dressing gown?
He's going to want to look good, smell great, but also be comfortable.
Top tip - book him in for a sensual massage. Taurean men love receiving a sensual massage.
Gemini
Attributes:
Those born under the sign of Gemini tend to be playful, witty, and curious.
Gemini men are generally good at communicating. They're outgoing and they respond best to change, variety, and intellectual stimulation.
While they can be gregarious in social situations, Gemini men can display both introvert and extrovert personality types - they'll often adapt to what's happening around them, demonstrating a versatility that can be confusing to others.
Symbols
The symbol for Gemini is the Twins - a symbol derived from the twin stars of Pollux and Castor.
Pollux and Castor have been powerful symbols throughout ancient history, featuring prominently in Babylonian astronomy and Greek mythology.
The story of Castor and Pollux told to us by the Ancient Greeks is that they were a pair of twins born by Leda but conceived by different fathers - Zeus being the father of Pollux and Tyndareus being the father of Castor.
Zeus was a god and Tyndareus was the king of Sparta, a mortal. This made Pollux immortal and Castor mortal.
When Castor died, Pollux begged Zeus to give Castor immortality so that they could remain together. Zeus granted his son's wish, uniting the twins as stars in the night sky.
From an astrological perspective, the twins represent duality - two faces that are similar but different - a multifaceted nature, a double perspective.
Colour
The power colour associated with Gemini is a bright, sunny yellow.
Birthstone
The birthstone associated with Gemini is the pearl.
Who should have sex with Gemini men?
It's never a bad idea to have sex with a Gemini guy - they want to have fun, they want to try new things, they want to experiment.
From a longer-term relationship perspective, Gemini men generally best match the other air signs (Libra and Aquarius), as well as the fire signs (Aries, Leo, and Sagittarius). What you get with these matches is the stimulation - intellectual and physical - that Gemini guys are looking for.
Who should Gemini men avoid?
Gemini men tend to struggle with Taurean guys. A Taurus will often feel too stable and too slow for a Gemini guy looking for excitement.
Pisces guys also generally aren't a good match for Gemini men. The emotional depth and introspection of Pisces will be frustrating for quick-thinking and quick-acting Geminis.
Capricorn also presents challenges for Gemini guy. Capricorns like to bring structure and order to their lives, whereas a Gemini wants freedom and spontaneity.
That doesn't mean that it would be impossible for them to have a relationship with these signs, just that it would take some extra work.
Looking for a third?
If you're looking to bring a guy into your relationship for some threesome fun, a Gemini man is a great option.
They can adapt to the situation that they find themselves in - as long as they find it interesting and stimulating.
They're also not going to want to stick around - they want to try new things, experience new dynamics, enjoy new men.
If you're travelling with a Gemini, it could be a bit of a wild ride. They don't want to follow the itinerary, they don't want to plan ahead, they're going to need lots of activity. You're going to need to have an open mind and lots of energy or you'll soon find it exhausting.
Gifts for Gemini men?
Gemini men are tricky to buy for. They want something new, something interesting, and something that will challenge them.
Activity-based gifts are a good starting point. A hot-air balloon ride, a dance class, or a mini-break to a city that they haven't been before.
If you're thinking clothing, maybe something that he can wear to the gym, or a new brand of underwear that he might not have seen before.
Perhaps a birthday dinner could be a good way to treat your Gemini man. Take him to a new restaurant, go for the tasting menu, and let the chef do his best to stimulate your date's senses.
Cancer
Attributes:
Those born under the sign of Cancer tend to be sensitive, nurturing, and have emotional depth.
They can sometimes be ruled by their heart instead of thinking things through with their head.
Symbols
The symbol for Cancer is the Crab - a symbol derived from Greek mythology. The story is that a crab pinched Heracles while he was fighting the Lernaean hydra. Crushed by Heracles, the crab was rewarded by Heracles’ enemy, Hera, by being placed in the heavens.
Colour
The power colour associated with Cancer is silver. Complementary colours are white and sea-green. The colour palette should feel calming, serene, and tranquil.
Birthstone
The birthstone associated with Cancer is ruby - the red hues of this stone reflect love and depth of emotion.
Who should have sex with Cancerian men?
It's never a bad idea to have sex with a Cancerian guy - they love to feel desire and passion.
In terms of longer term commitments, Cancerian men seek stability which seems them generally work best with the earth signs of Taurus, Virgo, and Capricorn, as well as the fellow water signs of Scorpio and Pisces.
Earth signs bring a sense of balance that helps Cancerian men to feel understood, safe, and nurtured.
Who should Cancerian men avoid?
Cancerian men tend to struggle with the fire signs of Aries, Leo, and Sagittarius, as well as the air signs of Gemini, Libra, and Aquarius.
The spontaneity and uncertainty associated with Fire and Air can make Cancerian men feel uncomfortable. Cancerian men are looking for emotional connection and stability and that can be difficult to find with both the Fire signs and the Air signs.
That doesn't mean that it would be impossible for them to have a relationship with these signs, just that it would take some extra work.
Looking for a third?
If you're looking to bring a guy into your relationship for some threesome fun, a Cancerian man is a great option.
They're going to bring emotional connection to whatever is going on. They're not going to be suited to a pump-and-dump scenario, they want to get to know you, they want to experience authentic intimacy with you.
If you're travelling with a Cancerian man, be aware that spontaneity unsettles them. They're going to want to have a plan, they're going to want to do things together rather than by themselves, and they're going to want to feel like their experiencing the destination that you're visiting - not just looking at it from the surface.
Gifts for Cancerian men?
Cancerian men value emotional connection so look for gifts that help reinforce a sense of belonging, of comfort, and nurturing.
Things that they can have in their home are a good starting point - a scented candle, a luxurious blanket, a treasured bowl.
They're tactile people. Something like a couples massage or a spa day could be a good option.
Authentic experiences that you can do together and create some memories are also likely to be received well - it could be as simple as a wine tasting, or a cooking class, or sharing a meal together.
Avoid buying them things that they don't need or gifts that aren't personal - they want to feel like you understand who they are and that you know what's important to them.
Leo
Attributes:
Those born under the sign of Leo tend to be confident, generous, and natural leaders.
They are often described as dramatic, creative, and passionate, with a love for the spotlight and admiration. Leos are also loyal, protective of their loved ones, and possess a strong sense of self.
Symbols
The symbol for Leo is the Lion - derived from the constellation of Leo that is visible in the northern celestial hemisphere.
In Greek mythology, this constellation represented the Nemean Lion that was killed by Heracles as one of his twelve labours.
Colour
The power colour associated with Leo is gold. Complementary colours are yellow and orange.
This is a fiery palette that should feel warm, energetic, and positive.
Birthstone
The birthstone associated with Leo is the peridot.
This yell0w-green to dark-green stone reflects light and was known to the Egyptians as the stone of the sun.
Who should have sex with Leo men?
It's never a bad idea to have sex with a Leo guy - they're passionate and energetic.
They're most compatible with the fellow fire signs of Aries and Sagittarius - they respond well to someone who matches their positive energy.
Leos can also have really strong connections with a Taurus, although these encounters may take a bit more work to navigate a longer-term balance.
Who should Leo men avoid?
Leo men tend to struggle with the water signs of Cancer, Pisces, and Scorpio.
Leos like attention but they also want someone who's going to fuel their passion and enthusiasm, not dampen their spirits.
That doesn't mean that it would be impossible for them to have a relationship with these signs, just that it would take some extra work.
Looking for a third?
If you're looking to bring a guy into your relationship for some threesome fun, a Leo man is a great option.
They're going to bring energy and enthusiasm to the encounter. They want to feel like the star, so that's ideal if you and your husband want to worship someone making a guest appearance in your bedroom.
If you're travelling with a Leo man, they're going to be looking for positive, fun experiences. They're action-oriented. Let them think that they're in charge and leading the expedition, even if you're doing a lot of groundwork in the background.
Gifts for Leo men?
Leo men like to stand-out, but they also like to feel understood and valued.
Why not book a photo-shoot for your Leo? Whether it's some new head-shots for their LinkedIn profile or something a bit sexier, most Leo's enjoy being in front of the camera.
If your Leo is an outdoor kind of guy, lean into that. Book a horse-riding trek, or some wild-swimming, or something with an element of adventure and fearlessness.
A Leo is not going to say no to a bit of luxurious grooming. Book him into a day-spa and give him the works. Or hire a masseur to treat him to a sensual massage.
If you're in charge of organising the party, think roof-top bar or buzzy venue with lots of people. A Leo likes to be the centre of attention - a birthday party is the perfect time to enjoy that.
