Going out: Underwear parties
Strip down and have fun.
The appeal of an underwear party is pretty obvious – guys getting together and stripping down to their briefs has an undeniable appeal.

But if you’re an underwear party virgin, the prospect may seem a little overwhelming. How does it all work? What underwear should I wear? How sexual do things get?
If you’re curious, we’re here to help.
What is an underwear party?
Underwear parties literally come in all shapes and sizes.
It could just be a house-party, or it could be a take-over of a bar, or it could be a themed night at a sex-on-premises venue.
The common denominator is that it’s a party where men are stripped down to their underwear. Simple.
Why would you want to attend an underwear party?
There’s lots of reasons why this kind of party might appeal to you. Maybe you’ve got a bit of an underwear fetish that you want to explore, or maybe you like the idea of a sexually-charged night out with a room full of nearly naked men. Perhaps you’re feeling good about your body – it’s never a bad idea to let the world admire every inch of your curves and swerves.
The bottom line though is that underwear parties are a lot of fun. They’re a bit ridiculous, a bit silly, and a bit sexy – they’re fun. In a fairly uncertain world, we should all be prioritising going out and having fun, right?
How can you prepare for an underwear party?
Confidence
You obviously don’t need to look like an underwear model to attend an underwear party, but you have to go in feeling confident about who you are. This is not a time for self-esteem issues, this is not a time for comparing yourself negatively to anyone else. This is the time for embracing the energy of an underwear party – getting your kit off and having a good time.
An underwear party is a bit like a naked beach – everyone is obviously going to look at you and check you out, it’s just human nature. Let them look – that’s pretty much why you’re here.
Dress to Impress
Deciding which pair of underwear you’re going to be pulling out for the party is obviously an important decision, but your choices are going to be shaped considerably by just how sexual the party is going to get.
For example, if it’s a sex-on-premises venue then a jockstrap or a thong is an obvious choice. But if you’re in more of a public space, then a cute pair of briefs is probably the sensible option.
If you’re not quite sure what the vibe of the party is going to be, it’s probably advisable to opt for a pair of briefs that you know you look good in. If things start getting a bit hot and sweaty on the dance-floor, the briefs can always come off. The briefs can come off very quickly and very easily.
Open-mindedness
Who goes to gay underwear parties? Everyone! Unless you’re at some kind of circuit party, you’re going to see all ages and all body types embracing the fun of an underwear party.
We can all look awesome in underwear.
Where can you find underwear parties?
If you’re in a city where there’s a gay bar then it’s pretty likely that they’ll be hosting an underwear party at some stage.
If not, why not start your own? All you need for an underwear party is a group of guys, some music, and some exhibitionism.

