Time for an erotic gay massage?
Heat up the oil, strip off, and get ready to relax.
If you’re feeling a bit stressed, you're wanting to relax, or maybe you’re feeling a bit sexy, looking for some intimacy, or just need a hand to get off – an erotic gay massage could be what you’re looking for.
What is an erotic gay massage?
There’s lots of different variations, but generally an erotic gay massage means that you’re going to be naked on a massage table, and the guy giving you the massage is also going to be naked.
Do I have to be gay to enjoy an erotic massage from a guy?
You don’t have to be gay to enjoy an erotic massage from a guy. Just because you’re being massaged by a guy doesn’t make you gay.
However you describe your sexuality, most guys are going to enjoy being oiled up and worked over by a strong pair of hands.
This kind of male intimacy is a good way to explore what it feels like to get naked with another man in the controlled space of a massage. If you're a bit bicurious, an erotic massage can help you figure out what you're into it.
How sexual does an erotic gay massage get?
This all comes down to what services your masseur is offering.
Most masseurs will get pretty hands on with your cock, and they’ll be expecting you to get aroused.
It’s generally expected that the masseur will jack you off and help you cum, but only if you want to.
Some masseurs will use their mouth and give you oral during the massage, but if you’re wanting to fuck the masseur or get fucked by the masseur then you should probably be looking for the services of a sex worker.
If you book an erotic massage you would generally expect that you getting off is about as sexual as it’s going to get.
Do all erotic gay massages come with a happy ending?
A happy ending is the term used to describe you getting off. If you cum, that’s the happy ending to the massage.
Most masseurs will be happy to provide you with a happy ending if that’s what you want.
You don’t have to cum if you don’t want to, and you shouldn’t feel under any pressure to get hard and get off.
Erotic massages are best when you just relax and enjoy the experience – if that results in you blowing your load, then that’s great.
Is an erotic gay massage legal?
It really depends where you are in the world. In a lot of places, it’s totally legal. In others, not so much.
If you’re in a part of the world where things need to be a bit more discreet, you might find masseurs offering their services using terms some as Bodywork, or a Lomi Lomi massage. You might just need to trust your instincts and see where the masseur’s hands take you.
How do I find an erotic gay massage?
An internet search is a good place to start. RentMasseur is a global directory that enables you to search by location and message prospective masseurs.
Gay saunas or bathhouses are also a good reference point. The bathhouse might be offering massage services, or might have a listing of local masseurs who are available.
Word-of-mouth is also a good way of getting recommendations about guys who are offering the kind of service that you’re looking for.
Want to learn how to give an erotic gay massage?
If you fancy learning some techniques and practising how to give a guy a naked sensual massage, join us in London for a relaxed and informal workshop.
The Massage Chronicles
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Gareth Johnson
