The art of a Lingam Massage
Unlocking the power of tantric touch.
Ever had a Lingam Massage?
Tantra is a term that's used fairly broadly and - particularly in relation to massage - is often used to indicate that the experience is going to lean into the sexual energy of whatever is happening.
Lingam Massage is a technique that's relatively common in a tantric massage. The word is taken from the Sanskrit language - Lingam Massage is a massage of the penis.
You might confuse a lingam massage with just getting a "happy ending" at the conclusion of a sensual massage. The difference is the intention.
With a lingam massage, the intention is to build the sexual energy and use the power of that throughout the body. While orgasm is possible during the experience, ideally you don't release the sexual energy that you've built during the massage.
Usually, a lingam massage will be combined with a full-body massage. This helps the guy that you're massaging to be relaxed but also to build trust and connection. Establishing lots of body-contact during the full-body massage starts to build the sexual energy that you're looking to harness.
Once you've covered all the major muscle-groups in the full-body massage, then you can start to focus in on the penis. What you don't want to do is just grab the shaft and start stroking.
A good starting point is to give a lot of attention to the perineum. Using a range of different movements and varying the firmness and intensity really stimulates this area.
As you're working on the perineum, continue to massage the entire body. For example, as one hand is stroking the perineum, the other hand could be stroking the back or the thighs. The intention here is to build sexual energy throughout the body.
After the perineum has been activated, start to shift your attention to the anus. Again, continuing to maintain contact with the entire body as you use your fingers to connect with the anus.
You need to read the body of the man that you're massaging to determine how he is responding to anal play. Some guys may not be psychologically ready for you to push this too far, but most guys will be receptive to being penetrated by a couple of fingers, and some will be ready for a deep and firm prostate massage.
Once you've taken the anal stimulation as far as you can, then it's time to get to grips with his cock. It's likely that he's going to be very aroused by this point. It's not a deal-breaker if he's not but it might suggest that he's over-thinking the experience and not fully connecting with his body.
Keep your touch on the cock as light and sensual as possible, again continuing to pay attention to the entire body as you're stimulating the penis.
It's helpful at this point to visual the entire body as one big cock. You really want every part of him to be quivering with sexual energy and pleasure and arousal. Stimulating the cock is one way of turning up the dial but don't solely focus on the cock at the expense of the rest of the body.
Once you've got his whole body feeling like a cock, a lot of guys will lose control and ejaculate. That's cool - it's not a problem. Some guys will be able to breathe through it as you slow the stimulation and bring them back to being present in the room.
It's helpful if you can have a detailed conversation before the massage to explain how it's going to work, otherwise the client may feel that the massage isn't complete or successful if they haven't ejaculated.
Specific health benefits from a lingam massage are hard to pinpoint beyond that it feels good to receive one.
It's possible that lingam massage could help with issues surrounding premature ejaculation as it helps guys learn how to slowly build sexual energy and control it - it's a way of learning about your body and how it responds to stimulation and pleasure.
Not everyone is going to be confident in providing you with a lingam massage but anyone who offers tantric massage should have the experience that you're looking for. Get them to explain how they're going to do it to ensure that the experience that they're offering matches up with what you're hoping for.
Lingam massage. Get into it!
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